Success comes to those who empower themself.
Take a look at your life and take responsibility. If there are things you don't like....change them. We all have our challenges.
Look at your relationships and cull those that disempower you, whether it be a partner that is controlling or others who bring you down.
The good news is we all have a choice. For those experiencing difficulties in an abusive relationship.......protect yourself. Seek out support. Unfortunately there are different aspects to controlling partners that when given the power......will try to sabotage the things you care are about most. Don't give them the opportunity. Control can be knowing your passwords to things like your computer, phone and bank accounts. Protect yourself.
Unfortunately, it doesn't always mean because someone is getting help.......that when they feel they are losing control.......they won't try to sabotage things you care about to give them control. The sooner anybody experiencing this in their life ......takes back their power the better their life will be.
It will take time but by placing one foot in front of the other and putting the building blocks in place for a constructive and empowering life that will give you the self esteem and abundance you deserve.
If you know somebody who is experiencing abuse and needs support.